Quote Originally Posted by GoejiSarah View Post
sorry for this stupid question I just dont understand how this game works, since is not cheap for me I sud know everyhting before start.. thank youu
It's not stupid questions if you don't know and want to make sure its the right fit for you and your wife. I believe its smart to be well informed before spending money xP
Rongway did amazing at explaining things so I'll just add my view on the game, albeit bias since I've played for over 2yrs haha.

My wife and I play this as well, we didn't start at the same time - I started first and convinced her to try the trial and she was addicted haha. I heal as a scholar and she tanks as a Dark Knight. It's incredibly fun to play together and meet new friends in the game. Real life couples who play are actually fairly common in Final Fantasy - or at least they are on my server so you know the game is engaging enough to where you both will (hopefully) enjoy it.
With the new expansion coming out in less than a month things ARE going to be changing and we aren't fully informed on all of the changes that are going to happen.
But don't fret, the changes are designed to make the game more friendly to newcomers so you can explore all the different jobs and roles without having to complete all the grueling extra things we veterans had to such as cross skills - where you had to level multiple classes just to make your main job flourish.

Also, if you have questions when in the game you can join what is called the Novice Network, which is an in-game chat room where you can ask questions to 'mentors' (veteran players) about certain things you might be confused on. More often than not the ones in the chat room are friendly and helpful - but there is always also this board on the forums if they are of no help!