Legal way to spit on others faces? I will say it once more again. Being offensive is still offensive. If someone tells you that you underperform in a nice way, it's not spitting or offensive, simple as that. You say that western community needs to learn how to help each other and have mutal respect. My BF comes from asian culture and he plays with tons of asian players as well in other games and also in FFXIV. What did I learn from it? Respect goes both ways. In japanese/asian culture, if you look at korean/japanese servers even chinese, they ONLY join, knowing they will actually do well, in fact also only join knowing the whole fight too. On western servers as you call them, doesn't do that. What respect is that towards 6-7 other players? Respect? Again goes both ways. If someone joines my group for farm and I KNOW he underperforms, I will tell him/her what to do, as in should look up guides, gives them tips and so on, if they can't deal with it, well that's their choice, but respect the fact I don't want 1 player or 2 wasting other peoples time. People needs to stop thinking giving advice is such a bad thing. You seen it everywhere, forums, reddit and on the game quite a lot. Giving tips to players or asking a simple question; why don't you use darkaside? You get ''you shut up or I tell you how to play'' You call this respect? C'mon.
And let's be honest here, there is bunch of wannabe mentors in this game, most doesn't even know how to play their main class. The real ones are the ones who stay in silent, because they are afraid they get shit on their face for helping someone.
And it's also stupid to say that western community needs to get better, when the actually ones at fault are those who proclaim themselves good to the community but actually build toxic attitude towards others. A parser will tell them (without others telling them) how they perform. This way they know how they perform and they have options: Stop calling people shit, when you know how you perform, get better or simply both. Even if you get better, you have no right to talk shit towards others and this is what soo many people in this forum and game in general been saying.
How about starting to help people and then you will see what I talk about.
Also I know people who plays games with official parsers too. The % rate of people getting better is higher, especially in a combat heavy game such as Blade & Soul. That game requires shitton of dps and they have a parser now. It's funny how many people on this game use a parser but barely few of them actually harras people. Why? Because it's offensive to harras people. What's so hard to understand that?
But if he was going to be an asshole towards the person, if he had a parser, you simply report him. You see, people join groups and expect others to do their job, this is totally unfair. There is a lot of silent kicks these days and it's sad how true it is.. Serveral reasons is because they either in denial they do bad, they simply think it's offensive when someone tells them ''hey you are behind on the rest, but I'm more than willing to help you out with rotations and such or send you a guide'' Who is to blame when this becomes offensive? I'm myself afraid to help people out, unless I know them well, other than that I will keep my self shut. Want to know why mentors, the very best ones are quiet too? Same reason as mine. Eeverything is freaking offensive today.