The mansion was my personal house and i kept reseting the timer with the main character who owned it.
And the fc house where my alt is the leader i reseted on the alt with.

And according to this site I shouldve gotten 2 emails one on separate occasions and i checked all my email accounts and there was nothing from SE giving me warnings:
http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodest...3e7ccabefa9954