Issues with some zones and aethertes, please do not repeat this in SB

[Felis]

If the dev team is already doing changes because how the community acts, how can one say one change is valid and another isn't because it is a change based how the community acts? Post limit here, the DF lock out if you leave, DF lock out if you can't accpet queue (and this can be unfair because it takes too long to change job when in a fate, or when doing a high level craft) and PvP chat removal are all changes because it is community babying. So how can one defend the aetherte shortcomings based on "devs should not be babying people" when several changes already happened based off it? I

Your comparisons are community driven problems, that got "rules" added to it, because the community couldn't solve it themself without rules.
Aetherites are not placed by players, they are placed by the devs who have for sure long thought about where to place the Aetherites and why (near settlements or friendly beastmen daily camps and not in strongholds, as an example).