Coils of Bahamut... and its inconsistent challenge level.

[Settiesama]

So you end up in your own little world... telling yourself what you wanted to hear anyway... regardless of whether it actually reflects any other opinions or reality in game.

You're just telling yourself what you wanted to hear anyway...

Seem to be mentioning yourself in this post OP. I think it's best if you reread alot of the posts in here, you'll find that not a single one has ever said what you believed them to say, and you'd realise that they have all been constructive reasons for why your opinion shouldn't happen.