It is petty either way. As for my opinion, it is clearly stated throughout my letter for those who care. People would rather insult or criticize the misunderstood then clearly specify what was unclear. Everything you've asked was present in my topic. It is pointless to give feedback on a topic if a majority of the commenters lash out negative criticism when opinions don't match their own, and this is putting aside the fact they will always lash out and oust the estranged. So, I would rather be oust hiding it in flamboyant text. I've always been female and there is no amount of vanity in the stars that will change my royal roads path. If I had to put it simply, I would state that it is very discouraging to wait so long hoping for something to happen and when it does finally happen upon fruition it doesn't matter. Hopes destroyed and hearts are crushed in the end... sounds like a second Calamity if this continues as is. Just my opinion though.