Reading so many negative things about raiding, I don't blame you but please don't think that
EVERY raid/static is like that.
Raiding can be very healthy and fun
IF you have a
good leader and
static members.
You don't have to be the best at your job but at least know how to play it well (As long as you can beat SSS dummy it is fine).
If 100% is the best then
70-75% is more than enough to beat the hardest content in this game without echo.
Would you believe me if I told you that some groups
don't force healers to DPs? And have cleared A12S
without echo?
People just want to talk about the bad and make the whole thing sound horrible when in reality there are some extremely casual groups out there.
Time consuming? If you do it everyday for 3+ hours, yes.
But in reality, you only need to do it two days a week for 3 hours maximum (With a mini break). This is the healthy approach.
Drama? Only when you have players that lied when getting recruited. Again a good leader can handle this. Everything should be done privately.
Don't yell or get angry at someone in front of all the other static members, that is just wrong and disrespectful.
[*] Also, you need to understand that
everyone including the best player in your static will be making mistakes. So don't worry too much about it as long as you are learning from them
I think these were the common things none raiders complained about.