This is something that has bothered me since I started playing in 2014, but really came to be unbearable this past month with the release of the Aymeric item set. Is it really that much more effort to adjust these items so that we can wear them and enjoy them regardless of our character's gender?

I was excited for the release of the Aymeric set in particular, i looked forward to it for ages. And then on the day of release - sorry only men can wear this.
Sorry guys only girls get to wear feminine clothes

I am very sick and tired of these subtly sexist choices, and they ARE choices deliberately being made. It would not be a terrible imposition to alter a few polys to fit for gender differences. If an outfit can fit on both a Lalafel and a Roe it can fit for any gender.