Yeah, happens with me too. Makes me very anxious since you can't gauge if they're friendly people whom will forgive mistakes, or unforgiving people whom might kick you the first mistake you make. Anxiousness on top of already having my social anxiety with grouping with people for mandatory dungeons, etc... I often wonder how I managed to force myself through all that to get up to date with the storyline. Many times I'd just quit the game with feelings of it being impossible to progress like this. I think it's in part due to the rare moments when I'd see a Kingdom Hearts fan in party, and then we'd just talk about Kingdom Hearts while we did the duty... wish I had more of those moments in-game... then maybe I wouldn't be so anxious.