Quote Originally Posted by Settiesama View Post
"You can get it now but please wait 10 minutes for all my friends to arrive, then another 10 minutes for their friends, and 30 minutes for that person to clear dungeon to arrive" is a very sad thing to expect people to do. I'd rather kill it when my party is there, since you know, we worked to find it in the first place. I'm all for helping people, but I won't promote laziness by wasting my own time waiting for them to appear from other zones.
I think taking things to an extreme end is being disingenuous at best. There are some reasonable boundaries here, but it's not overly burdensome to wait for folk who are on their way. I've often seen people post a "pulling at ____" start time, which is plenty courteous as it gives those who want to get there a known time limit.