Ya, you have to know where to draw the line when paying respects to someone. Not everyone would want to be glorified or remembered in such a way, they would just want people to move past it and look ahead, not to have that constant reminder of a terrible incident that occurred in the timeline of their life. Like rather than having them be remembered most for being dead, remember them for what they did. Remember Robin Williams for his movie roles and comedy, George Carlin for the same, Steve Erwin, Bernie Mac, David Bowie, Michael Jackson, Prince, etc. We want to remember these people for the impact they left not to be reminded of how or when they passed.