Is there a reason

[Laerad3993]

You can close your house to everyone but yourself but you can't lock out just 1 person.



that's crazy that anyone has to do this to avoid another character.

Exactly. I'm about 5700 hours invested into this game, my family, and the few friends I have left. If I have to leave, it's going to be permanent. If people can access lodestone, fine, let them. But they SHOULD NOT be able to have me added if I block them, which they do. I've even tested it myself with my wife, it works.

What I think you're not seeing Quar, is that the player is HARASSING ME offline, while following in game doing harmless things that to a GM arent bannable. Hence me saying they are abusing a loophole, knowing the gms cannot touch them. I can avoid my social media, I can't avoid a player following me in game when they always know where I am, at all times because they still have me added. I am being taunted in a way, into reacting in game. Like as youre suggesting, aggroing mobs to them, or any other form of aggression that will then turn into ME being the bad guy.