It seems as though every 2-3 hours a new thread or post is made by neophytes complaining about "Toxic " behavior by the community. Usually it's relating to them being kicked from a party because they're wearing the wrong gear, being advised that their doing something wrong, people are speedrunning, asking for higher levels of participation or whatever.

Can we please stop using the term Toxic to refer to:

1.) Being told your gear is not appropriate for the content your doing (and subsequently being kicked)
2.) Being asked to DPS as a healer (can - worms, opened, floor covered)
3.) Being asked to pull more as a tank
4.) Being asked to use your enmity reduction as DPS
5.) Being asked to not spam 1 button as DPS
6.) People not waiting for you to finish watching the cut-scenes (if they don't wait and you get locked out, w/e - enjoy your free carry)
7.) Anything and everything else that is not Extremely harsh, Malicious and Harmful

I can count on one hand the number of times I've been met with Toxic behavior. I have had people with bad attitudes, who are annoying, who have a superiority complex or are just downright rude. But Toxic has a very specific meaning in that it describes the most extreme type of behavior and when overused devalues it's meaning to the point where even the smallest perceived slight becomes a world crushing deadly encounter.