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    Innapropriate use of the term Toxic

    It seems as though every 2-3 hours a new thread or post is made by neophytes complaining about "Toxic " behavior by the community. Usually it's relating to them being kicked from a party because they're wearing the wrong gear, being advised that their doing something wrong, people are speedrunning, asking for higher levels of participation or whatever.

    Can we please stop using the term Toxic to refer to:

    1.) Being told your gear is not appropriate for the content your doing (and subsequently being kicked)
    2.) Being asked to DPS as a healer (can - worms, opened, floor covered)
    3.) Being asked to pull more as a tank
    4.) Being asked to use your enmity reduction as DPS
    5.) Being asked to not spam 1 button as DPS
    6.) People not waiting for you to finish watching the cut-scenes (if they don't wait and you get locked out, w/e - enjoy your free carry)
    7.) Anything and everything else that is not Extremely harsh, Malicious and Harmful

    I can count on one hand the number of times I've been met with Toxic behavior. I have had people with bad attitudes, who are annoying, who have a superiority complex or are just downright rude. But Toxic has a very specific meaning in that it describes the most extreme type of behavior and when overused devalues it's meaning to the point where even the smallest perceived slight becomes a world crushing deadly encounter.
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    Mhm... the term "toxic" to describe player behavior has primarily been coined by Riot Games and is meant to refer to the fact that some players can "poison" the game in a way like poison can contaminate a water supply.

    Another common analogy is like the poison in an artery/vein: The poison or bad behavior spreads through the body or playerbase. I.E. you've been pissed off by someone so now you're annoyed and piss someone else off in turn, who then gets pissed and... rinse and repeat.

    In general, it means that someone creates a negative atmosphere with their behavior and thus "poisons" it - Due to its behavior, the presence of the person is bad for those around it. Hence, the term toxic. And toxic comes in various degrees - a little toxic, moderately toxic, very toxic. Like the potencies of real poisons!

    Due to LoLs popularity, the usage of the word itself has spread a lot, though few actually understand what it's supposed to mean. Doesn't help that Riot (AFAIK) never gave an official Definition of it, despite its frequent use of the word. You pretty much have to read their statements and interviews and deduce what they actually mean. Alternately, you can probably call Lyte directly and ask, if you got the number. Personally, I don't.

    A few fun reads on the topic, tho:
    http://www.polygon.com/2012/10/17/35...-to-cure-toxic
    https://rework.withgoogle.com/case-s...sing-toxicity/

    A fun quote from the last link:
    Riot looked at the preceding 12 months of gameplay of every employee and discovered there was a correlation between in-game and in-Riot toxicity. They determined that 25% of employees who had been let go in the previous year were players with unusually high in-game toxicity. The most common bad behaviors they found were passive aggression (snarky comments) and the use of authoritative language, sometimes using their authority as a Riot employee to intimidate or threaten others.
    This shows quite well that even fairly small things (Snarky Comments) are considered toxic with their underlying definition.
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    Last edited by Zojha; 03-12-2017 at 04:33 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zojha View Post
    Alternately, you can probably call Lyte directly and ask, if you got the number. Personally, I don't.
    I'm pretty sure one of my friends is engaged to Lyte. Might have to call in a favour...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Spiroglyph View Post
    Boi if you got kicked for the same thing in over 20 duties I strongly suggest you think hard on whatever the hell it is you're doing

    As I'm sure you are well aware, it takes more than one person to be able to kick a player from a duty, so in all those instances there were at least two people agreeing they'd be better off without you tanking.

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    Thank you.

    I don't post much on these forums, but I do read them here and there and this section always gets flooded by complaints about toxic players and the oh so toxic community and I always wonder what the hell they're talking about.
    I do not understand it at all. This community is so friendly and innocent in comparison and so many people have such a GREAT DEAL OF PATIENCE that I could never think of this community as anywhere near toxic.
    Now, I do not play on the american data servers which seem to be the main culprit, but us europeans aren't all friendly and innocent either. So I'd guess its fairly similar overall (correct me if I'm wrong).

    I hardly ever meet actual toxic players. The worst attitude I *usually* get to see is people leaving a farm party after 1-2 wipes and stating that "I thought this was a farm".
    While this might not always be the best attitude and behaviour, it is far from toxic. It just means the player had different expectations when he joined and came to the conclusion his time is spent better with something else.
    Toxic is what I'd call someone who would start calling out people and insulting them. Or, you know, those people who mess up all the time and then randomly call out healers or tanks and blame them for their own mistakes?
    That is toxic.

    Asking people to put more effort is not toxic. Especially not when theyre offering advice. IMO, the people refusing every piece of advice, slacking and hoping for a carry are toxic, if anything.
    If you can't put a basic amount of effort into your "playstyle" and/or fail to grasp the concept of "group effort" cos you dont care, then may I suggest you to main a botanist?
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    This thread is toxic.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zojha View Post
    coined by Riot Games
    Late Latin toxicus, from Latin toxicum poison, from Greek toxikon arrow poison, from neuter of toxikos of a bow, from toxon bow, arrow

    First Known Use: 1664


    https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/toxic
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    In my opinion, though many of those points you described aren't particularly toxic on their own, a player's behaviour can greatly influence how these matters are perceived. If a healer kindly asks the tank to do bigger pulls as the healer can manage, fair enough. But if the healer/DPS goes into a massive tirade on why the hell is the tank pulling pathetically small mobs and they're a terrible tank etc etc THEN I would class that as toxic behaviour. It's all about context and tone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Llus View Post
    Late Latin toxicus, from Latin toxicum poison, from Greek toxikon arrow poison, from neuter of toxikos of a bow, from toxon bow, arrow

    First Known Use: 1664


    https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/toxic
    Quote Originally Posted by Zojha View Post
    Mhm... the term "toxic" to describe player behavior has primarily been coined by Riot Games
    The MMO term for it, not the actual term for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Faliandra View Post
    Thank you.

    I don't post much on these forums, but I do read them here and there and this section always gets flooded by complaints about toxic players and the oh so toxic community and I always wonder what the hell they're talking about.
    I do not understand it at all. This community is so friendly and innocent in comparison and so many people have such a GREAT DEAL OF PATIENCE that I could never think of this community as anywhere near toxic.
    Now, I do not play on the american data servers which seem to be the main culprit, but us europeans aren't all friendly and innocent either. So I'd guess its fairly similar overall (correct me if I'm wrong).

    I hardly ever meet actual toxic players. The worst attitude I *usually* get to see is people leaving a farm party after 1-2 wipes and stating that "I thought this was a farm".
    While this might not always be the best attitude and behaviour, it is far from toxic. It just means the player had different expectations when he joined and came to the conclusion his time is spent better with something else.
    Toxic is what I'd call someone who would start calling out people and insulting them. Or, you know, those people who mess up all the time and then randomly call out healers or tanks and blame them for their own mistakes?
    That is toxic.

    Asking people to put more effort is not toxic. Especially not when theyre offering advice. IMO, the people refusing every piece of advice, slacking and hoping for a carry are toxic, if anything.
    If you can't put a basic amount of effort into your "playstyle" and/or fail to grasp the concept of "group effort" cos you dont care, then may I suggest you to main a botanist?
    I appreciate your response and generally agree with everything. However, people refusing advice, slacking and hoping for a carry should be labeled as apathetic and/or lazy.

    As to your question; the player base on NA servers seems to be consistent with EU and JP. There are people that are apathetic and lazy, those that take any form of criticism as a personal insult and those that have an entitled attitude or superiority attitude. And while they are in the minority, confirmation bias tends to make them more memorable.
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    I don't agree with all. For example, you can be asked to DPS as healer or pull more as tank. Asking is not toxic. Toxicity comes when you say no and then they proceed to insult you or try to abuse the kick feature. Asking is no toxic, toxic is how people react to that. Also depends how you ask. It is not the same "You can DPS while you're not healing" than "OMG fucking noob healer no DPS, git gud or quit game" or jsut being kicked without a word.

    People usually complains for the manner, not really for the question. As you should be able to accept too the answer of that person. If they don't DSP as healer because is not sure or cannot manage it, you cannot demand it (follow the example before) as long they are doing his role.

    People not call toxic to one who ask other to do a thing, they call toxic when THEY demand, usually with bad manners.
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    Last edited by Xlantaa; 03-12-2017 at 05:27 AM.

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