Ok so the title may be hard what I mean but I am still, what you call "salty" on the PvP change while doing nothing to fight PvE toxicity. A few of my friends did dun before reset and this what happened:
So they entered dun, the 3 of them and all looked normal. The one on AST noted the other AST coming in with a potency burn buff. My friend who is getting into AST and learning it more and more thought it was very odd and maybe just bad luck. As the first fight went on she thought how it was very strange she was the only one doing the AOE buffs. This went on for every boss fight but it was hard for her to figure it out while having to heal so much. She had to heal a lot because people standing in avoidable damage for more DPS on the DPS meter. Our brd friend was dodging like she should but on the first boss she was tanking it though DPS, making there a lot to heal. The outsider AST was not helping much and never leeches (or w/e the AST version is to that) the doom off people and just healing here and there when it was convenient.
So after having moderate healing stress throughout the bosses, on the last boss she focused more on figuring out why. This top geared AST would baby and continuously buff their blm friend and keep them healed. Every once in a while you get Aoe heals but all the single healing went to this person and did not swiftcast raise, all in the name of having better DPS.
My concern with PvE toxicity is why everyone is so bent on DPS? I even had top geared healers myself bragging about their DPS leaving me to basically solo heal the party and putting people down. I have other stories as well, like wrongful gearing, putting crafter gear on the right side and being told deal with it because the DF is easy, having my friend MPKed by Alexander because she ended up pulling the boss by mistake because of all the feign pull attempts by the tank (vote abandon eventually since they would not heal her or stack with her leading to failed DPS checks) and constant speed run harassment in deep dungeon when my friend just wants to explore and get all the silvers.