What is up with this toxic community

[Voltyblast]

Not that I agree with them harassing but... wait for your first rotation? Do you mean to imply not attacking until you've done a full aggro combo? If so, that's a mistake on your part. As a tank, you open with either your ranged aggro ability or aoe chain pull depending on what you're aiming to do. At lower levels, you'll want to spam your aoe aggro ability at least 2-4 times then rotate your combo between mobs.

First of all, it was Somh Al HM not some lame lower level dungeon where I'm so hindered that I can't even use butcher's block.
Secondly, I did use tomahawk and even if I didn't, I couldn't keep up because even before using skull sunder (aka the second attack) they already overaggroed like crazy and the guy died because of it: I'm 262 with a 260 relic so unless I totally suck (and I don't considering that I did another dungeon right after totally flawlessly), I can safely say that they didn't allow me to grab enough aggro to keep it stable. And funnily enough, their aggro meters didn't even 1/4 of the bar when I finished my very first rotation, which means something was wrong on their behalf. Plus I have enough tanking experience to see these kinds of mistakes and I wasn't bothered with it: what bothered me is their reaction to such a simple mistake and putting the blame on me.

Or what, are you going to say that it's safe for BLM to use fire 4 right of the bat, WITHOUT quelling strike, and blame it on the tank? ((this is just an example)

And let's assume just for a second that you're right (you're not) and that I did a mistake on how to keep aggro and stuff, are you saying it was right for them to offend me calling me the B word, letting me die for no reason (i was mass pulling like usual: did that before this argument arrived) and then kicking me because of that for absolutely no reason other than to put the blame on me?

Geeze this community IS toxic....