Quote Originally Posted by Nestama View Post
I treat DF in a way where I expect everyone to work as a team and carry their own weight if the moment demands it (most of my DF's are this), not a 'you deal with what you get' way, as that can enable bad behaviour in players (they don't get 'punished' for being carried, so they think it's okay. Especially if you decide to leave when they become rude).
Usually the ones who are rude are the ones who bitch about low DPS without trying to fix anything. I can count on one hand the number of parties I've just left. Usually after I open dialogue with my partymates we either determine we can't manage with current makeup or figure out what we need to adjust and continue on. I just have this really bad character flaw that when I make a commitment to something, which I consider joining DF to be, I hold to that commitment. Horrible, I know.