Quote Originally Posted by sandyshbl View Post
What I will do now: Ask at beginning if we can pull fast/not care about aggro so much.
Just to mention it because you might not know this (because maybe its different in other games?):
"Not caring about aggro so much" isnt really an option in this game - not so much because the mobs are hitting hard, but also because they can interrupt casters (aka: dps-loss and no healing going off) and melee-classes often having positional-attacks that they cant use when they're facing the mob (and the mob will spin with them when they're having aggro) and that again would be a dps-loss.
It really is in everyones best interest to let the tank do the tanking and trust their judgment how much they and the group can handle.