Man...people are pretty sensitive in this thread lol. Kind of funny to see people talk about "15+ years playing MMO's and I've never seen a DPS pull." Everquest which set the paradigm for MMOs and even the predecessor of the current game we play forced DPS to pull mobs for the party, those games fall in the 15 year span folks...either you played the MMO "Sims" or you were just a lazy player in real MMOs.
Sandy, the communication in this game sucks and literally 90% of the community are lazy bums who "think" they are playing their job right, but they are normally the reason that the run is taking longer than what is considered average run time. It doesn't get better lol, you either conform into laziness or get better than your party. If you choose to get better than your party you become the 10%...the people who actually know how to play their roles and aren't bothered by small stuff like DPS pulling.