Does it get any better?

[Vidu]

Speedrunning is more a thing in later dungeons, yes.

BUT - take a look at your own attitude here, please... if you pull as a dps because the run isnt going your way, you deserve a kick anytime. Play a tank if you want to dictate the pace of a dungeon, please. And dont come here whining because people dont play the way you want them to play - because thats what you're doing here.
You're not being stupid btw, just a jerk - if you want to speedrun leveling dungeons look for people you can do that with...

Ever tired communicating with your teammates instead of just ignoring that they're there and playing the game your way? Because thats excatly what you're doing when you pull instead of letting the tank handle that.
I've never played an MMO beside this one, so I cant tell if its any different - but here is what you should take away from this: Dont pull as dps in ff14, easy as that.