Does it get any better?

[sandyshbl]

I just bought the game a week or two ago. 55 BLM atm. Anyways, so I have played many mmo's (wow/swtor/ aion +tons of other korean mmos) for like probably 15 years. I know the sample size is small, but in no other mmo than ff14 have I met people who whine in lowbie dungeons about the way you play. I just perma constant pull cause I want to speed up the run and not have down time. I've been kicked several times cause "I'm being stupid". Mind you, the people who actually kick me don't have sprouts. It's not like they're learning the game, making it hard for a first time healer to heal me through taking aggro or something. It has always been kids with multiple 60's complaining.

If they were able to hold a dialogue to come to an understanding, I'd be okay with the situation. But these kids can't take any words whatsoever that go against their style of play. Even just explaining "Hey, we haven't died yet, we're fine, just trying to save time" results in kicks.

Only in ff14 so far. As much as I've enjoyed playing ff14 otherwise, I've never gotten annoyed by a community this early, making me consider trying out another mmo.

Edit: Taika- never thought of it as harassing before- thx for insight
hobostew- the "steamrolling" mindset comment -thx for understanding where I'm coming from first (beyond right and wrong), instead of just attacking me like some have done