DPS obsession in farm groups

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I think people shouldn't raging in chat about low DPS, just either left, disband & remake without the low dps or just carry them. Raging is kinda not nice.

However, I see nothing wrong with parsing in farm. You don't know how sad the parser look sometimes. Maybe you should parse and you may understand why people rage quit.

When i go as healer and DPS, and the fight is so solo-healable but the co-healer heal only and then jump around while no healing required, i feel stupid (for letting myself put so much effort in while I could learn from "the best" and get easy time). Or when I go as dps and only 1 or 2 dps are at the top of the chart (me included ofc), all other dps are at around the tank level with 300-400 dps lower than the top or 2nd dps. When i got those kind of dps i do 1 or 2 runs and say good bye, unless i somehow got the bird and have to stay for a few more runs.

Often, the one bad dps got the bird while you stare at them with your hands kinda hurting from all that high KPM (keys per minute) smashing you did. :P

[randysquirrel]

You don't know how sad the parser look sometimes

People make out like they're 5 or 10 dps lower than someone else and the filthy parsing people blow up and demand they be booted

in reality, it's not uncommon for the disparity to be huge. Other day we had one dps on 2000+ and one on 1200 (same class).
I don't really understand how people can argue that the current system with everyone "officially" in the dark as to who's dragging the entire party down is acceptable, but that's just imo