Overwhelmed-but having a blast.

[Rinari]

I don't know if it ever slows down. I'm ~7 weeks into the game now and still feel like I'm only skimming the surface of things to do. I'd mirror the sentiment that you should focus on the main quest line while also hitting up your class/job quests every 5 levels. Don't be afraid to just do what is fun of course! If you want to take a side trip into the saucer, unlock the triple triad card game, delve into Palace of the Dead, work on crafting, ect... have at it! Objectively though, a lot of things get easier as you level up and unlock things through the MSQ (main quest sequence).... so if you're torn, just go back to MSQ.

Oh, do join the novice network if you haven't already! You'll need an invite from a mentor, but shouting around any major city should get you in pretty quick. The novice network is a great place to get advice and more importantly, meet other players. See if you can find your way into social linkshells with friendly people. There is nothing more rewarding than joining up with friends! You'll eventually lose novice status with time played and A Realm Reborn MSQ completion. Make use of it while you can!