Lost my house =\

[Obsessive]

I can't seem to remember where my house is. I don't have a port option and when I click Estate Selection all I see is my apartment and FC house.

I don't believe the house has been deleted since none of my furnishings are anywhere to be found.

Any help would be great!

[Moomba33]

If you don't have a teleport option either you never placed a mini-aetheryte on the property or the house has been auto-demolished for not being entered for 45 days.
If the house was demolished you can reclaim some gil and items by talking to the Resident Caretaker npc.
If it's been more than 35 days since the house was demolished everything is gone.

[Dustytome]

I can't seem to remember where my house is. I don't have a port option and when I click Estate Selection all I see is my apartment and FC house.

I don't believe the house has been deleted since none of my furnishings are anywhere to be found.

Any help would be great!

It sounds like your house may have been automatically demolished. As long as you were the owner of the estate you should have received multiple notices to that account's email address. If you haven't set foot inside the house for 45 days then it was demolished, after which you will have 35 days to pick up 80% of the gil you paid for the plot as well as any non-destructible furniture that was left in the estate from an npc.

[Serendair]

Talk to the NPC that holds your stuff if your house got demolished.

If he doesn't have the stuff, you might just not have placed an Miniature Aetheryte in your yard. Why not go to an Aetheryte in Ul'dah, Limsa, Gridania and select "go to ward with private estate" or whatever the line says? -> open map, look for plot with a star next to it and voila.

If that doesn't work I'd say call support.