You say no community, except I've made countless friends via FFXIV, cross-data center too, as well as met my Fiancé through it. Don't go complaining on the forums that the game is supposed to do what YOU are supposed to do, that's not how socializing works. That's like saying an online food delivery app needs to know what kind of things you like and suggest based off that. It doesn't know you, so how is it going to know what you like and what you want to eat? On top of that, game difficulty has nothing to do with making friends, if you spend time together and have fun with whatever it is you do, you'll make friends.