Heya! I'm still trying to pick up the finer points of tanking (wanting to be a better healer so I've picked up tanking, PLD for now).

I'm having trouble with some more advanced positioning questions. I fully get the "spin the enemies away from you" technique, but there are a few other questions that come up:

When I do spin the mobs, sometimes there is that player that is on my side that doesn't have positionals. Should I try to reposition, or just say "screw it" and it is their fault for getting hit (I had a BRD do this. Seemed odd).

When I lose aggro on ONE enemy I usually provoke/shield lob so I don't cleave the group, but if more than one got lost due to my healer going gunho on Medica 2 and regen right at the beginning of a pull, do I risk cleaving the group to try to go over to them and Flash a few times?

Thanks!