Rant about server locking

[ShionUzuki]

For the last week now, 3 friends of mine have been trying to get onto the server that i play on in order to play grp up and have some fun. All of them are new to the game where as i have been playing for ages now and invested a lot of time into my char.
Yet the server i play on (Cerberus EU) is constantly locked during the waking hours, so they've had to create chars on other servers while hoping for the lock to get lifted at a time where they actually have to time to get onto it. (which with family, job and school so far has been impossible)

I get the idea of limiting server population to keep ques down, but find me in the alps, it is more a hindrance than a limitation

/rant over -.- i know this is never gonna change, but with the time ive invested on my server i dont wanna make a new char on another or server transfer away from the people i know there -.-