Details:
Stuck in loading screen after character selection. No error message

Steps:
Got disconnected in the ifrit crystal area. Tried to log back on and this problem occurred.

Date & Time:
11/21/11 1:30 am Central time.

Frequency:
Always

Platform:
Windows PC

PC Manufacturer & Model Number:
Homebuilt Computer

Operating System:
Windows 7

Graphics Card:
ATI Radeon HD 5700

ISP:
Comcast

Type of Internet Connection:
Cable

Things I have done:
Used different isp, port forwarding, directly connected to modem, lower settings, deleted character and had it reactivated, closed background processes, set ffxiv priority to high in task manager, EVERYTHING regarded to my connection, re-installed 3 times, drivers updated.

NO ERROR MESSAGES

Number of people in the area: 20ish

I was in a party. 8 Members

I was afk, got disconnected.

Not being able to log in is my problem......... I can get to character selection but no further.

No antivirus programs, windows firewall is off.