Look, the OP pays money to play like everyone else. He or she expect, and rightly so, to be able to enjoy all facets of the game without undue harassment from others. No one has to put up with toxicity or "take it like a man" as you put it.

"Take it like a man," how trite.

How about you emotionally stunted juveniles learn some self restraint and not blast hate when a match doesn't go your way?