I can't tell if you are being serious or sarcastic. Stupid text and lack of emotion. Regardless, I do happen to think it is unthinkable - at least before you offer to help. Some of my best friendships in 11 started because I sucked, and asked for help, or someone else sucked and I offered advice. Granted, in pick up groups, I am a lot more lenient. With my friends who claim to be hardcore I'll kick then from a party and tell them they can't get back in unless they bring me a coke (I frequently play with people who live next door to me). But obviously that's a different situation as I know them intimately and its all in good fun.