Female ranged and caster sets are super detailed and extremely pretty, have some of the most unique headpieces and are all dyeable if red/black does not fit your taste
The paint brush for BLM is adorable and I am SO glad I barely play melee classes, because every single one of those armors is the most fugly thing I've seen since my male friends stopped bringing their action figurines to kindergarden.

Since I can't try on the male sets myself I have yet to see them, but if one of your main complaints is the color...well, they are dyeable, so what's the problem?