\o\ Finding your Sweet Lover (Or Nightmare) /o/

[Cleftobismal]

I believe it will hurt the community made system.

You have to understand that SE adding some system isn't going to help anyone magically get some bond with someone friend or no. A friendship is not some thing that is asked for. It happens on its own accord.
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\o\ Finding your Sweet Lover (Or Nightmare) /o/

Such is my title. I'm plenty aware systems like these don't form an immediate bond, let alone good ones.

That's not even how it works.


You need to get past that I'm already all for a match system not being entirely related about Eternal bonding, boyfriend, girlfriend. I already compromised for that bit to be a tiny portion of it, and for it to mostly well. Find an adventurer who has a common ground/goal as you to duo with.

That's all it is.

Finding.


The rest of your post is getting into values of how a relationship would form which as I said in my previous posts not everyone views the way any relationship works the way you do. That's a whole different debate and quite frankly this thread isn't about how it forms or how it should form.

Can we move on from this please? The match making system is not gonna be a Dating one. Period.

[Vidu]

Okay, I took the liberty to look at your posts in the marriage thread - to sum it up for everyone else: its basically the word "Yaoi".

I'll repeat again, since you dotn respond to that: Why does this game need a "find a friend" or dating option when that isnt what this game is about?
Playing with other people and building a friend/relationship isnt the same, you know? And SE only has to take care of the former, not the later - they're running a GAME not a dating app.
And will all the strings that are attached to a date apping kind of thing (what about minors? what if the relationship doesnt work out? since it was their system putting them together, do they get a free transfer?) why should SE get into that kind of buisness? Just so you can find your male Au Ra Lover?

Also, even though I'm sure you'll just burn me and dont want to hear this, but my first impression of your "application" in the marriage thread was: "What a jerk - is he making fun about the gay or gaming community? Or both?" I would advice you to act a bit more respectful and in a way that can be taken serious - spamming "Yaoi. Yaoi. Yaoi" for a whole column doesnt do the trick, it just seems childish and not as if you mean any of that - with this attitude a matchmaking symstem wont help you either.
And now I'll get some chocolate and wait for you to tell me that I have no right to judge you

[Cleftobismal]

I'll repeat again, since you dotn respond to that: Why does this game need a "find a friend" or dating option when that isnt what this game is about?
Playing with other people and building a friend/relationship isnt the same, you know? And SE only has to take care of the former, not the later - they're running a GAME not a dating app.

This game isn't all about Golden Saucer.

The Feast.

Housing.

Getting Married isn't what this game is all about.

Heavensturn


>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Valentiones Day<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Little Ladies Day

Hatching-Tide


Moonfire Faire

The Rising

All Saint's Wake

Starlight Celebration


Hunter's Moon

Breaking Brick MOuntains

Burgeoning Dread

Lightning Strikes

The Maidens Rhapsod

Yo-Kai Watch


. . . .


Shall I go on or would you please debate against these totally optional not part of the FFXIV theme you've seem to made for yourself.

Playing with other people and building a friend/relationship isnt the same, you know? And SE only has to take care of the former, not the later - they're running a GAME not a dating app.

I am not repeating myself. Figure it out why I bolded that miss Detective. You go search my posts anyways to make me myself a subject of the debate. That should be raising some red flags in your head.


As for this:

Also, even though I'm sure you'll just burn me and dont want to hear this, but my first impression of your "application" in the marriage thread was: "What a jerk - is he making fun about the gay or gaming community? Or both?" I would advice you to act a bit more respectful and in a way that can be taken serious - spamming "Yaoi. Yaoi. Yaoi" for a whole column doesnt do the trick, it just seems childish and not as if you mean any of that - with this attitude a matchmaking symstem wont help you either.
And now I'll get some chocolate and wait for you to tell me that I have no right to judge you

What am I, your life line? You can talk crap about me all you wan't. I don't care. That's your own problem to deal with. Don't expect me to mediate or cure the self made rancor you've just created for yourself.

I don't care what you think about me, but if you wanna talk about respect, you need to respect this process of debating. And if you can't even handle that (As I'm reading your personal attacks, you can't) then stay out of this thread.


So that being said since you seem to be derailing yourself from the debate:


If you can't take the heat child, stay out of the kitchen.

[Magic-Mal]

Can we move on from this please? The match making system is not gonna be a Dating one. Period.

Okay then. It's not for dating. It still does not change how relationships(I'm including friendships) go. I think you missed the idea. I don't think it's just my beliefs only <.<

I'm pretty sure any animal animal on earth(including us) can't just magically become friends with another.

You may think it's not the subject matter here but it matters.

Since we've deduced your system down to simply having an adventuring buddy, well... It's pretty simple really!

Just talk to someone. An FC? A LS? Random interaction with people in the world? Parties? Find a friend Megathread?

Find an adventurer to duo with? Make A Friend Megathread lol.

[Newmanxeno]

Can you change the title to "Finding your Sweet Adventure Buddy" to reflect the changes? And maybe even your original post? The place you ended up doesn't sound like where we were going.

[Vidu]

That's all it is.
Finding.
Can we move on from this please? The match making system is not gonna be a Dating one. Period.

And why is a new system required here? Whats wrong with the PF?
Wouldnt it be like just another window - just one that less people look into?
What is wrong with all the social aspects the game is already offering the TOOLS for - LS, FC, static...
Why does SE create something new for a very personal level (face it, one-on-one is always going to be more personal - and from what you're saying thats what your looking for after all) that is not really their buisness...

I understand your desire to meet someone and maybe I'm old fashioned - but we already have all those toold at hand, no need for "blind-speed-dating" and friendship out of a queue...

[Cleftobismal]

I'm pretty sure any animal animal on earth(including us) can't just magically become friends with another.

You may think it's not the subject matter here but it matters.

Since we've deduced your system down to simply having an adventuring buddy, well... It's pretty simple really!

Just talk to someone. An FC? A LS? Random interaction with people in the world? Parties? Find a friend Megathread?

Find an adventurer to duo with? Make A Friend Megathread lol.

Magical-Mal has used reverse Psychology!


It wasn't effective . . . .


On a serious note:

Find...


Find..

Finding....

Search..

Searching. . ..

As I said previously, so this will be the last time I'm saying this. That's not how these system work. It just makes it easier to find a potential play buddy. Even on those dating sites you abhorently abhor, they will tell you the site is to find a "Potential partner".

Po-

Ten -

Tial.


Nothing is immediate about these things. Nadaaaah.

Just talk to someone. An FC? A LS? Random interaction with people in the world? Parties? Find a friend Megathread?

Or how about the fact despite us having Link Shell's and Free companies, someone just had the idea to make a thread. Why not go a step further when the interest is clearly being shown? A.K.A Stahp trying to flip the script. I've already made this point previously along with a picture.

Can you change the title to "Finding your Sweet Adventure Buddy" to reflect the changes? And maybe even your original post? The place you ended up doesn't sound like where we were going.

I need more feedback and information before I do such a thing. Until then you can read on through the posts. As you should be doing anyways, for someone may have already asked and has been answered.

And why is a new system required here? Whats wrong with the PF?
Wouldnt it be like just another window - just one that less people look into?
What is wrong with all the social aspects the game is already offering the TOOLS for - LS, FC, static...
Why does SE create something new for a very personal level (face it, one-on-one is always going to be more personal - and from what you're saying thats what your looking for after all) that is not really their buisness...

Tell it to the numbers of people on these threads. Tell it to the numbers.

Must I also repeat myself, it's optional. Not required. And I get what you're trying to say here but things like Eternal bond, Golden saucer, and so forth I've blatantly said before, aren't required to be in this game either.

[ErikMynhier]

Out of curiosity what would yall think of FFXIV having a match making system to pair up two partners to be potential EB lovers? [When I mean potential, you'll just receive a "hook up status" and if you get along you can advanced into "lovers" till you wish to finally EB]

Of course the matching would revolved around the questions answered and the preference listed (Time zone/Race/Age(?)/Etc).


Even odd ball questions such as:

"Ser Ayermic X Estinien or Sidurgu X Estinien or Ser Ayermic X Sidurgu" (Don't take this seriously. lawl)



I dunno. Seeing that NA is not the only forum board that has a Marriage Hook up thread with over 1million views. It may be worth the investment to put in something interesting. What do yall think? /o/

[Cleftobismal]

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You have a lot of catching up to do. Bwahahahahha

[Newmanxeno]

I did read through. You talked yourself out of the title and premise of your post. So why not make a new one?