Raging Strikes is a must-have. Quelling Strikes is a godsend when you end up with undergeared/underperforming tanks, but as a WAR main who plays with a very skilled BLM who hasn't been bothered to level BRD yet, I can say that it's not a problem.

Eye for an Eye is great. When I BLM, I naturally adore huge pulls, so helping my tank out in whatever way I can to make the pull better for everyone is just a given. I always E4E + Apocatastasis on big pulls when I can, if the healer hasn't already done so.