The healer (I know his name but I'm not that petty), decided it MY fault that the team was doing so poorly. He said to take Wanderer's off and never put it back on because we as dps, mind you the BLM was still not hitting the targets with the party, were failing because I was slow. I told them that I wasn't the issue, and I tried to tell them that I think we could progress faster if the BLM attacks with us or at least one target ahead of us in succession instead tackling a whole other target around the circle. But they insist it's me so to prove to them, because I've done this several times before their team, that I wasn't the issue I didn't use Wanderer's like they asked and we STILL wiped.