How do I join a grand company? it says I should be getting the quest at around lvl 20 but I am lvl 33 now and I still don't see the quest. I also cannot become a monk. I have pugilist 33 and lancer 15. and I don't see anyone to give me a quest to do in pugilist guild. if anyone can help me please. ive been looking around on how to do these things for hoursa and I find nothing.