"I pay my subscription, therefore everyone should carry me while I hit cure II every 3 seconds while everyone else has to do rotations, movement etc... I'm the team player here, not you"

You can work out pretty quickly those that can't do/aren't comfortable with doing damage, and those that want to half afk and have everyone else carry them. Not everyone is comfortable doing damage during a big pull (on their secondary class/job) and that's fair enough. But sitting there just casting Cure II when there's very little need? That's not a team player, that's a leech. Seeing the defence here of this attitude just makes it clear there are far too many who want a free ride, using 'intolerance' as an effort to shut down the discussion (you're not intolerant of others, are you? For shame).

You can tell when DPS are doing the bare minimum, and they don't get a free ride either. They're more likely to be kicked, from what I've seen. Healers who can do it but refuse are just as bad.