Stop queuing for PotD if you don't intend to DPS at all.

[Rivxkobe]

Hold up on that...if the party is fine, then yes I'd definitely be doing DPS.

I'm talking about when they TELL me that I need to DPS when I don't think it's the appropriate time. That's what I mean--not standing around just doing a Harvest Dance or something.

Although admittedly if that actual conversation took place, my reply would be "Indeed--that's what I'm here for. You're here to get the DPS. I'm here primarily to heal and DPS when I see fit. Now, go DPS. "

I can't imagine any situation where a dps would tell a healer to dps when the team needs to be healed or there is high damage going out on the tank.