Hi,

I'd say to try out Geuno on Leviathan. Some info on our FC (and the alliance) can be found on our website, which is linked below, but we do have everything and more you asked for with usually upwards of 50 people online and active during your time.

http://www.geuno.net/

In general though I would advise having a look around before joining any FC to make sure it is a good fit for you. It took me a few days of looking around, speaking to people and even research over the net to find an FC I could stick with upon joining a new server. I have switched servers twice now, both times for friends, and have found FC's which interested me relatively quickly. Party finder, dungeons, the novice chat etc will all be able to help you.

Would love to have you in Geuno but where ever you end up good luck!