I could sort of understand your point if the game only released yesterday, but years later? After millions upon millions have gotten there already and even further, because it only takes you 10 levels lower?
Also, in your example, what does this person-1 win? and how does person-2 know person-1? If they are friends, that's between them and none of your business, if they are not, then how do they know? And more importantly, what do they actually win?
It seems like you're fairly new, because the term p2w specifically refers to gear, the term came from primarily asian grinders, where you can buy better gear and "win" battles against other players using money, or "win" world firsts for specific raids and bosses... key word, Win.