Update: Last night got a canned response from GM call referring me to the forums for support. I immediately sent in another angrier one, few minutes later I got a reply that I may be experiencing a bug.. referring me to the forum once again. I never got to talk to a GM.

This morning I logged in and the demolition message was still there. I kicked all the tenants, removed and replaced all the furniture, changed light settings, left my friends' homes.

The message is now gone. I'm not sure what did it but it definitely was one of those things. I don't think GMs did anything. I did take screenshots just in case.

Thank you all for the suggestions.