I'm on Faerie, which is pretty populated. That said, I am personally seeking to leave the realm and I have my own post in these forums seeking a new place to be. I am not leaving because I dislike the server. I am seeking to leave because my friends have long now left playing. I'd like a few new adventures in hopes of finding a renewed vigor to keep playing. I'd recommend Faeire to a new person as it stays reasonable active. I wish you luck on your search as I am on the same search myself.