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  1. #31
    Player
    Mirakumi's Avatar
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    Oct 2011
    Location
    Windurst 2.0
    Posts
    1,170
    Character
    Lady Zelda
    World
    Leviathan
    Main Class
    Archer Lv 92
    The Glams, The Challenge, and the fun. o/
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  2. #32
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    Xiao_'s Avatar
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    Sep 2016
    Location
    Limsa Lominsa
    Posts
    107
    Character
    Xiao Tianfeng
    World
    Siren
    Main Class
    Bard Lv 60
    Quote Originally Posted by FinaSel View Post
    So, why do YOU raid?
    because i enjoy learning tough things with friends! couldn't even imagine trying to pub them though
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  3. #33
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    FunkYeahDragons's Avatar
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    Jul 2015
    Posts
    467
    Character
    Cafe Miel
    World
    Faerie
    Main Class
    Astrologian Lv 80
    Quote Originally Posted by FinaSel View Post
    I want to believe that.

    But I have heard many terrible stories of statics falling apart due to fighting between members.

    Someone suggested making a static of people in our FC, but people who were used to raids warned us against doing that. They told us statics can turn even the closest friends into enemies.

    Even now, some of my friends say their statics are falling apart because of fighting.

    While I have been with several different groups, there is a group I go with every night at 9:00. But we are not officially a static.
    The benefit is we all know the same pattern and know what each player will do next.

    But most of the members in the group are in their own FC, so I feel kind of left out a lot. I don't really understand their inside jokes and things like that.
    IMO, it's a risk that's worth taking if you can go in with clear expectations (when to replace members, how hardcore to be, etc) and members who have similar attitudes and skill levels.

    Groups of friends fall apart over everything from tabletop gaming drama to relationship drama. No reason to avoid fun activities together.
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  4. #34
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    Areic's Avatar
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    Mar 2015
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    170
    Character
    Areic Davrun
    World
    Balmung
    Main Class
    Marauder Lv 90
    Quote Originally Posted by FinaSel View Post
    Someone suggested making a static of people in our FC, but people who were used to raids warned us against doing that. They told us statics can turn even the closest friends into enemies.

    Even now, some of my friends say their statics are falling apart because of fighting.
    But most of the members in the group are in their own FC, so I feel kind of left out a lot. I don't really understand their inside jokes and things like that.
    Really it depends on the people. If friends fall apart over some difficulties in raiding they weren't very good friends to begin with. We aren't exactly top tier raiders, we make a lot of mistakes, take a bit to clear, but at the end of the day we all have fun and enjoy the content together. You just gotta make sure you form a static of easy going people, you won't find many "Friends" griefing each other unless they're coming in thinking everyone is gonna be elite players and knock content out of the park
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  5. #35
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    oLLiCS's Avatar
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    Dec 2015
    Posts
    119
    Character
    Olli Sr
    World
    Phoenix
    Main Class
    Lancer Lv 70
    I raid for the challenge, fun and BiS gear (and also for the looks to glamour). Tho I only raid with my static/friends and not with random people.
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