Difining? I am assuming that you mean defining?
If so, if believing that people can be taught is a bad thing and you're trying to hold that against me, then that is fine. What I don't like is people assuming with no actual proof to their credit, that there is exactly 1% of people in this game that don't get the system therefore the whole thing must be changed. Since they are saying that, and just want it changed flat out for that supposed 1%, is also basically saying that they believe that this 1% is not intelligent enough to be taught how to read 2 numbers on a map properly.
I myself am a college instructor so I deal with teaching student's on an almost daily basis, and one thing I have learned is never to doubt them because that will only teach them to doubt themselves. Most people can be taught through the act of repetition, and seeing that I do use the map on a constant basis I believe that people can learn that if I said:
"Meet me at (24,34)" so I can help you."
That it won't take long for most people to remember that the first number does correlate to the top line of numbers running across the top of the map, and that the second number correlates to the ones running down the side of the map.
Yes there is always a margin for error in all things, and when dealing with issues in FFXIV, I think two numbers on a map are the least of our worries. Anyway, if every time one person didn't understand something we just up and changed it instead of trying to educate people, then we would constantly change everything in our lives.
No, attempting to educate others is by no means a guarantee that it will be soaked in. But on the other hand, if you don't try then it's even a higher chance that that person will screw up.
Anyway which is worse? Doubting people and not even trying to educate them or helping them and giving them a better chance at success. This whole game is a learning experience, and we were all once at a point where we didn't know how to do things within it, but we learned, and we taught others what we learned. It makes us all better players.
One thing I do teach my students is to always admit mistakes, don't assume that you do know everything. If you assume that you know everything, then no one will want to teach them. But if they can admit their faults it makes them an open book that is willing to accept knowledge and in the end it will make them a better more intelligent person.
All things in life were once new to us, even you were once new in the military... if people doubted in you would that have made you feel good? I'm sorry but your post seems very negative all around, and you seem to doubt in people.
But then again this is a forum, and text is deceiving. Our true feelings don't always come out in it, so I could be reading it wrong. I will always believe that people can be taught, and if that makes me a bad person, at least I'm a bad person who believes in my student's and doesn't doubt or give up on them.![]()



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