Hi! I've been playing for like 4 days >.< (5th now)
and I'm wondering like how does someone bypass the "character restriction" thing when making a new character? I'm trying to make someone join but the server is grayed out.

I also want to try Balmung but will it always be never open? I sacrificed a day without sleep and it never opened.

Lastly, are scholars that bad? I'm having fun as a scholar but as I got to 40s, I had a few tanks abandon asap after everyone skipped the cinematic...
So far the only tanks that died on me was due to tank rushing and me dying from getting aggro'd (even though I turn off cleric stance while healing).