What is it with Sensitive People and Raids?

[Faeon]

Snip "Hyperius Ultima"

I'm not trying to sound mean or anything, but the matter of fact is that every raid patch, or Primal Patch, there just seems to be more and more people kicking just because they can't perform to others' expectations when it's a learning experience overall(and you've only stepped your foot in the door only to have it crushed by someone else).

This sort of thing will always be there now, its the norm in out as fast as possible, even if you are a new sprout or just finished getting the patch started. As ugly as it is, nothing you can do about it except suck it up and move on. Sounds harsh but its the way things are nowadays. Hopefully you do actually get nice people, they are their even though they are the few.

[Leigaon]

I've gotten a few who are very short tempered. Did a Bismarck run just in trial roulette. One was new, but they weren't the issue. Problem was we took too much damage when we first landed on Bismarck. We got off, healer healed and tanks didn't voke or move the adds. So we wiped.

The Mithra Monk got upset and said this was pointless, and actually just stood there when we tried our next attempt. I told him then he can leave and find a party that does it perfect. He just stood there.

We ended up winning and he stayed there dead on the ground until it was complete. I gave him a hug, called him a special lil snow flake and we kept on moving.

These people are ones who demand perfection because they were either carried by some means for so long with a group that they think they're good, or they are someone who calls in sick to play 8 hours on patch day just to come back and complain that there's nothing to do because they don't like 90% of game (Triad, Gathering, Crafting, etc...) and feel the game should be catered to their liking. Since they don't have that much to do, in a game like this it gives you time to perfect the things you can focus on. So they expect it to go perfectly since they feel it's either so easy, or they've forgotten they screw up too. These are the ones that make the game feel like you're at work, except you can't do anything to them..they can be mean and nameless over the internet..so the internet kinda acts like HR!

[Besame]

Agreed Lei. I am giving this game another month but nothing will change. The behaviors have been allowed for too long and instead of bailing on these people and taking the timer, we enable them and do run after run with the same result. I for one am done with it.

[silvermoon383]

Agreed Lei. I am giving this game another month but nothing will change. The behaviors have been allowed for too long and instead of bailing on these people and taking the timer, we enable them and do run after run with the same result. I for one am done with it.

Don't let them run you out of the game. You'll find them in every one (especially with party-centered content like what FF14 is set up around.) FF11 was dominated by the "perfectionists", requiring that the party be very specific jobs because that's what they read on the strategy faqs. Vote kick them out and move on.

[Besame]

Don't let them run you out of the game. You'll find them in every one (especially with party-centered content like what FF14 is set up around.) FF11 was dominated by the "perfectionists", requiring that the party be very specific jobs because that's what they read on the strategy faqs. Vote kick them out and move on.

It's pretty hard to vote kick when they are constantly moving and hitting mobs. The attitudes often come from tanks/heals. Also people tend to not want to kick because it means a wait, especially if it's a tank/heals.