The Lodestone Allows People To Stalk

[D-chan]

You can claim that harassment is a "differing opinion" or "stuff I did not like" as much as you want, but harassment isn't trivial and I won't minimize as much as you can try (and fail) to. How do you know that the others didn't try to talk to her? Why should they bother when there are is already evidence of how she has responded to me and others who have tried to speak with her civilly? If she truly is receiving harassing /tells (which are definitely not coming from me, my friends, or anyone else around me to my knowledge), all she needs to do is report and blacklist. This is Balmung, after all. The same people can't keep making new characters to harass her here without paying out the butt for server transfers and waiting on them.

[Idolatrous]

Look at all these mamas having drama!

Looking at the first post, it seems like... these people are really trying to get under her skin or something. Isn't this game mostly full of adults with responsibilities? Why would you go out of your way to be childish and bully and harass someone? I don't understand, this is some high school stuff that is definitely happening. Recently transferring to Balmung, everyone I met is mature and they act their age.

I honestly don't know what the big deal is about. But, since this an unofficial RP server and you take RP that seriously... you really need to rethink your life decisions. I know RP is fun to do but to get mad over it is like holding a grudge when someone has a crayon box with a sharpener and you don't.

[Val_Nunh]

Look at all these mamas having drama!

Looking at the first post, it seems like... these people are really trying to get under her skin or something. Isn't this game mostly full of adults with responsibilities? Why would you go out of your way to be childish and bully and harass someone? I don't understand, this is some high school stuff that is definitely happening. Recently transferring to Balmung, everyone I met is mature and they act their age.

I honestly don't know what the big deal is about. But, since this an unofficial RP server and you take RP that seriously... you really need to rethink your life decisions. I know RP is fun to do but to get mad over it is like holding a grudge when someone has a crayon box with a sharpener and you don't.

I'd suggest reading everything before forming an uninformed opinion and spewing out.. whatever this is.

[Idolatrous]

I'd suggest reading everything before forming an uninformed opinion and spewing out.. whatever this is.

Nah, I am talking to the victim personally on Discord and she told me the whole ordeal about RP and what happened.

I'd suggest not commenting without knowing the whole story... whatever you said to me.

[Val_Nunh]

Nah, I am talking to the victim personally on Discord and she told me the whole ordeal about RP and what happened.

I'd suggest not commenting without knowing the whole story... whatever you said to me.

That makes sense. Another biased person she's telling her side of the story to. Nothing to see here

[Thalvaus]

That makes sense. Another biased person she's telling her side of the story to. Nothing to see here

Sorry, but anyone with the "Balmung" tag is likely here due to one party telling the other about this thread. Almost every person not from Balmung up to this point? Hmm. Well, at the very least they believe that harassment of any nature isn't right and that the issue should be dropped. That people should just let things go. I'll never dislike anyone here based on a disagreement, or "friends of against friends of". I may dislike their thoughts, but never will I hold it against them. This is a game, and I'd be willing to help anyone that needs it.

[Iromi]

I agree with OP, this needs to change.

I have people buying the game just to try to talk to me to ask me for photos -_- I change my name and politely tell my fan base I don't play this game for...that. They just google my old name and bam, new one shows up! Nice...

[D-chan]

I agree with OP, this needs to change.

I have people buying the game just to try to talk to me to ask me for photos -_- I change my name and politely tell my fan base I don't play this game for...that. They just google my old name and bam, new one shows up! Nice...

Maybe don't link your cosplay Facebook in your signature, then? Seems a lot easier than asking FFXIV to remove a useful feature from the game.

[Iromi]

Maybe don't link your cosplay Facebook in your signature, then? Seems a lot easier than asking FFXIV to remove a useful feature from the game.

...This isn't my real account lawl.

I am not that dumb, please. -_-

[Val_Nunh]

...This isn't my real account lawl.

I am not that dumb, please. -_-

So you're not callalillycosplay and you're linking to someone else's random cosplay facebook page?