Let me put it this way. Would it get on your nerves if every once in a while someone who dies on your watch hits their macro:

<t> pls raise.... not keeping people up is lame. <se.1>

It's equally annoying to get called out by a raise macro when your death was not your fault, than it is for healers to get crapped on for not healing through avoidable damage. You could try a more humorous approach if you wish to not offend/demoralize people.