I have had all your troubles just the same. I uninstalled the game and reinstalled a few weeks ago and it fixed the problem but I have been trying to deal with this same issue once again. I have tried brand new controllers, new cords, checked all my drivers, updated and uninstalled everything. This is getting really annoying to deal with. I know a few other players having the same issues. I talked to a support agent today and he said if there were more people with the situation that they will try to do something on their end. I feel so crazy right now because This stuff is only happening to me. If anyone knows how to fix this problem I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you