Some of us actually talk to other players, and turning tells off or shuttling them off to some hidden tab to be ignored just isn't a good enough option.

There ARE things SE can do to make this game better, easy changes, but they don't, and it makes them look lazy and like they don't care. I get that in JP it's a totally different environment, so maybe they just don't understand how much of a hassle and/or annoyance it is so it doesn't get the priority it should, but how many posts, how many complaints, how many reports must they see before they understand that it IS a problem that greatly affects it's players negatively on an ongoing basis.