No, they don't want to play with lazy players. That's a different thing.
Let me ask you a question. If you enjoy Scholar, but you don't like 2/3 of their playstyle that consists about DPS and micromanaging the fairy, why would play it? You don't like the class, you just like 1/3 of the class.
If you don't like cleric stance, you don't like using a healer in this game. Cleric comes with all the set that a healer has in this game. Even if you main heal, you will need to use cleric in this game, because there's no fight that is a constant healing check.
If you want to play a healer that doesn't DPS, that's not the game for you. Complain to SE about why there isn't a healer with 0 DPS capabilities, just support and healing.
This thread is not about complaining that you don't like DPS. If you don't like DPS as a healer make another thread about how much it bothers you to DPS as a healer.